Stanley Thomas Stikeleather

Stanley Thomas Stikeleather, 75, passed away peacefully at home on November 6, 2026, surrounded by his wife and three children following a courageous battle with cancer.

Born on September 27, 1951, Stanley was the son of the late Thomas Howard Stikeleather and Audrey Bell Stikeleather. He lived a life defined by faith, family, hard work, humility, and integrity. He was a quiet and humble man who never sought recognition for all he did, but whose character, dedication, and love left a lasting impression on those fortunate enough to know him.

At the age of 20, Stanley began his life as a farmer, carrying on a family tradition by working the land that had been passed down from his grandfather. What began as a family legacy became his life's work, as he spent 35 years as a dedicated dairy farmer. Farming was more than a job to Stanley; it was a way of life and a source of great pride. He loved working the land and took great satisfaction in planting and harvesting corn, barley, wheat, and sorghum. He worked diligently, often putting in long hours, and approached each day with quiet determination and a humble spirit. He faithfully cared for the land that generations before him had worked, continuing a legacy that will forever be part of his family's history.

After his years in dairy farming, Stanley continued his working career with three years at Matlock's Auto Parts, followed by 14 years with Nutrien Ag Solutions. Even after stepping away from farming, he had no intention of slowing down. He didn't completely retire until the age of 72. Integrity, dedication, and hard work were not just qualities Stanley possessed; they were genuine parts of his character. He believed in doing things the right way, honoring his commitments, and giving an honest day's work. His strong work ethic and quiet determination were evident throughout his life and served as an example to those around him.

Stanley was a man of strong and unwavering faith in God. He read his Bible and prayed daily, keeping his faith at the center of his life. For many years, he faithfully sang in the choir at Western Avenue Baptist Church, sharing his love of the Lord through music and fellowship. His faith was not simply something he talked about; it was reflected in the way he lived his life.

He was also a devoted North Carolina State Wolfpack fan. His loyalty to the Pack was unmistakable, proudly wearing his beloved red, white, and black. As a member of the Wolfpack Club, he enjoyed attending home football and basketball games and cheering on his team. Win or lose, his love for NC State never wavered.

Stanley and his beloved wife, Denise, found happiness in life's simple pleasures. They enjoyed Saturday morning breakfasts together at Breakfast Time in Salisbury and Sunday afternoon drives, which almost always included a stop for ice cream at Catawba Creamery. These simple traditions were among the many special moments that made their life together meaningful. He also treasured family vacations to the beach and the mountains, creating memories that his family will carry with them for years to come.

Above all, Stanley cherished his family. His greatest legacy is the family he and Denise built together and the generations who will carry his memory forward.

Stanley is survived by his loving wife of 55 years, Denise Davis Stikeleather, and their three children: their oldest daughter, Carmen Cunningham (John); their son, Eric Stikeleather (Bobbie); and their youngest daughter, Candace Lindstrom (Sarah Rochester).

He is also survived by his ten grandchildren: Davis Graham (Shelby), Laken Lambert (Jonah), Conner Graham (Amanda), Ethan Stikeleather, Amber Lindstrom, Alyssa Lindstrom, Mykala Cunningham, Jacob Cunningham (Mac), Chloe Cunningham, and Zachery Cunningham; 3 great-grandchildren, Liam and Arya Lindstrom, and Elliana Carver; a great niece, Lyla-Mae Davis who was like a bonus great-granddaughter and Vivianne Moody, a bonus great-granddaughter.

Stanley lived a simple, meaningful life grounded in hard work, strong faith, integrity, devotion to his family, and appreciation for life's little pleasures. Like the fields he carefully planted and harvested, the seeds of love, faith, and dedication he planted throughout his life will continue to grow through the generations of his family.

Though his passing leaves an immeasurable void in the hearts of those who love him, the memories he created, the lessons he taught, and the love he shared will remain forever. His life was a testament to the value of faith, family, and honest work. The land he tended, the family he loved, and the faith he lived will forever be part of his legacy.

Troutman Funeral Home is serving the family. Services will be held at Western Avenue Baptist Church on Tuesday, November 10 at 1:00 with friends being received from 12:00-1:00. Dr. Jeff Spry will be officiating. Burial will follow at Iredell Memorial Park. Pall bearers are Gary Davis, Luke Davis, Andrew Davis, Boyd Glenn, Kenneth Lindstrom, and Scott Lowry.

"Well done, good and faithful servant."